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Eman Bensalem

Pick A Wife The King Way

How the emperors and kings of the world selected wives based on immaterial wealth.

The Shell Woman VS The Immaterial Wealth Prize

Hanging out on instagram for many Substackers feels like walking around empty shells shouting about their new unboxing, crying over the latest Cartier scam, begging for another Hérmes bag…

The modern woman has become a billboard that only proves her existence and value by borrowing endlessly from the outside, hoping to cover the emptiness within.

Shells tend to make a lot more noise than heavyweight prize type of women:

the women only emperors and kings historically recognize, the true 1% : Immaterial Wealth women, the ultimate luxury asset in today’s world.

Shell women are rewarded by algogirthms because they work for the consumerism economy because they have so many external needs:

They need the hair extensions, the fillers, the botox, the korean skincare trends, the longevity devices, they also need the new age husband who is in a manhood crisis and allows sharing videos from their bedroom, dates, bathroom…just to “prove” to some strangers on the Internet that they are not in fact shells.

True power is very silent and often full of doubt: Immaterial Wealth women do not have a place on the psychologically deranged social media market, they’re not on TikTok, they definitely are not “high value woman” coaches and they will never show you where they had dinner last Friday.

But they will write an article like this one, to hopefully awaken the masculine who’s now bombarded with nudity, dating apps and empty-shell economy.

The funnier part is, even with all of the external hustle, shell women are now sharing their “I am sad but I don’t know why” videos on YouTube, a trend that started with one of their own influencers who despite the husband in finance, the 30+ Hérmes bags and a 1M+ following, is seemingly having an identity crisis, one I believe existed way before the “stuff”, but only got more apparent with the hoarding of the material.

How Kings Choose Wives

Dr Eman Bensalem in an emerald satin gown on a balcony

I have read a book gifted to me by a man I look up to a lot, about Sultana HĂĽrrem and it sent me on a massive research to understand this:

How come the actual kings and emperors of the world (Sultan Suleiman, King Of Jordan, kings of Morocco, grandson of Napoleon married to muslim algerian woman Yasmine Murat) never choose women within their “generational wealth” circles? and how come the average man, the nouveau riche and basically every man below king status, chooses from the mainstream decorated shell market?

My research and my personal life experiences (as a woman who got proposed to by a Duke from the byzantine lineage) showed me this:

Kings have a long-standing tradition to educate their heirs about Immaterial Wealth as the ultimate luxury asset in a woman, the rest which the instagram and tiktok women obsess over, is only details that can easily be acquired with a mentor (etiquette, royal style, public relations or even foreign policy..) but the identity level immaterial wealth can not be acquired as easily.

This is why you’ll find your Saadia Khan, the exposed Dubai escort, side chick to a married man AND simultanousely “high value woman coach” and her likes teaching similar things assembled from the ocean of empty shells:

Do not cook, you’re high value, be useless, have the right bags and sit at a lounge of a hotel at 7pm everyday because you obviously don’t have a life.

This magical formula has been sold to millions who clearly believe they are better than Queen Rania if they simply don’t cook.

Then comes the worst part of the shell economy: Asia joins the conversation.

Now Chinese seduction coaches in particular don’t know who to become: should they learn bellydance to lure in a Sheikh in Dubai or should they follow every korean skincare doctor available, or should they just buy more Hérmes, WAY more, to prove to the others how serious they are about becoming the top of pyramid of the Shell Economy.

Unfortunately, they have not yet answered the questions above, some of them got lucky enough to be my clients and they are in an immaterial wealth education immersion, a full detox from the world they know.

It is a form of insanity to believe you’ll ever a quality of life that surpasses your level of wisdom, so many men are waking up to that, including the retired heart throbs such as Brad Pitt who discovered the Nirvana later in life: marry outside of your circle altogether because if you do what you always did, you get what you always got.

These men who have seen the world, had fame and were wildly successful but did not have the King unfair privilege to be educated on Immaterial Wealth Women, are all realizing that SUKUN (my philosophy, meaning Peace on a deep internal level) can only be lived with a real woman by their side.

The realization took their entire life to get to, but you got this article which can serve as a shortcut.

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First published in Immaterial Wealth Education The essay closes on Substack, where it was first published. Read the full article →
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